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        Everyone is born with some unique qualities, the only difference is time, some achieve early some late, just need to stay positive , stay focus and motivated towards our Goal. Let me share an example of two friends- There were t wo best friend living in a small village of West Bengal, India, one of 7year old and the other of 10y ear.   They were so close and best friend that they always Love to stay together, play together, take bath in river together, eat together, study together and do many other things together. O ne day they were playing kites and while play ing they went far away from their village. They didn’t knew at first but came to know when they were not able to hear any human noise. Suddenly, the 10y ea r old boy fell into the well and he started shouting as he doesn’t know how to swim, the other one was confuse of what to do, suddenly he saw a bucket with rope lying on the other side , without a thought he took and told his friend to hold. With full energy he

Libraries are so special for the people who love books and silence. Have you ever wonder why libraries have special atmosphere ? Because they are places where many congregate but in Library  silence is the code. Quietness in an atmosphere means there is the presence of quiet minds, and quiet minds are always relaxed and can concentrate easily and create more freely. Now imagine you are in the Library of your mind, browsing the accumulated wisdom on the shelves of your life – listen to the silence, be aware of the stillness. Now you can really listen, you can really hear, really think , really create and behold and you are an artist. Did you ever know that silence and creativity are Lovers ? Just try once, early morning walking in the park also helps to think creatively and realize the Real You as there is silence in the atmosphere and you are with Nature.  We are made of five elements Air, water, Fire, Sky, Earth, that is the reason why when there is silence and surrounded n

“Kindness makes the most beautiful person in the world no matter what you look like. Always be kind to all..!!!” “Life is not a rehearsal, Each day is a new show. There is no repeat& no rewind. So give your best shot in all your acts. As the show goes on 7 on…!!!” “A bird sitting on the tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because its trust is not on the branch,  but on its own wings….!!! “When detachment & zero expectations become a part of your Life… Joy, Happiness, Peace,  Satisfaction become an invariable part of our Life..!!!” “We can save many beautiful relations if we understand the fact that people are not wrong they are  just different..!!!” “Nothing binds us except our  thoughts… Nothing Limits us except our fears… Everything is within   us…!! So lets practice to overcome our fears and elevate our thoughts…!!!” “Your attitude can be your best friend or worst enemy. It can take you to places you never thought  possible or it can be t

         When we are worry about our situation and things does not work according the way we want, worry will not help but we need to make a list of the things that worry us most and decide if they are in our circle of influence or worry.   Think about what we can really do to have an influence on each of them in an effective way. By determining which of these two circles is the centre around us where most of time and energy revolves so that we can discover the great deal about our level of positivity. Positive people focus on the things they can do something about. If necessary, they change their attitude. They are aware that perhaps they cannot change the circumstances but they can improve their inner attitude. This is what positive focusing is all about : being creative, thinking differently, being open to listening, being more understanding, more communicative and showing more solidarity. Reactive people focus on the problems of the circle and on the circumstances about whic

               If we want to understand how the Law of Karma works, then we just need to think what happens when we throw a stone into a Lake; it causes ripples that spread towards the shoreline, before returning to the centre point. Likewise, We human being constantly emit energy through our thoughts. If we think scientifically, we are made of energy. As an energy can neither be created nor destroyed, so we only transmit our energy. We create thoughts , emotions and feelings that transmit vibrations. There are people who tend to radiate energy and others who tend to absorb it. The energy we give off hits other people and rebounds back to us. From this Law we should understand if people send us an energy that is not very pleasant, perhaps it is because on another occasion we send out this type of energy, although it may have taken a long time to come back to us. If we make an effort to give off positive energy, with Love and Respect for others, this energy will come back to

                                        STORIES FOR    FROG   EXPORTATION              There was a big ship for transportation on the sea shore of Kolkata beach. The exportation were for frogs from India to other foreign countries. The receiving manager were standing on the shore, he saw that the frogs were on big barrels. The manager was shocked to see that the barrels are open , so he asked the exportation manager “The Barrels are open, some frogs might have jumped out of the box”. The Exportation manager replied its not possible that the frogs have jumped out of the box. Receiving manager asked “why its not possible that it would have jumped out of the barrel?”. Exportation manager replied because all the frogs in barrel are from India , if one tries to come out there are 10 others to pull down his legs down and that is the reason why non of the frogs can come out of barrel. What I am trying to explain with the example of frogs is that there are many people who really want to

Negative attitude is like a punctured tyre. You cannot reach anywhere until you ch]ange it. So let s convert our negativity into positivity and always be happy and make others also happy…!! “Love transforms Labor into entertainment. Victory is guaranteed to the ones who are constantly Loving…!!” \ Every moment you have the choice to be happy or sad. Every moment you have the choice to give happiness or sorrow. Always practice to choose to be happy and spread happiness..!! “Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about Learning to dance in the rain. So, practise to learn the art of  being happy in every situations…!!!” A Pessimist is somebody who complains about noise when opportunity knocks. Lets practice to become optimist in every situation and recognizing opportunities knocking on our doors…!!! An absence of something is always larger than the presence of something. Do the best you can with what you get. Success and happiness will come your way.

When you keep yourself well dress with proper clothes like Businessman or officers along with proper hair style and good behaviour with smile on face than no matter what kind of small profession your are in people will respect you and ask for your introduction. Let me share my experience when i visited one small shop to purchase a poster paint colour. The shopkeeper uncle was aged so i ask whether he is was a retired Army Officer. The shopkeeper uncle just smile and replied saying “many people ask me this question , I have never been in Good Service nor in Army but had the same stationary shop, the only difference among other shopkeeper is that they are not well dress nor do they response properly to the customer  but I don’t do this, I cleaned my beard, dress press clothes and keep my hair simple and with smiling face i behave properly with everyone ” that's make the difference and he smiled. When Shopkeeper uncle smile his honesty and humbleness reflect on his face. From m

“When you finally let go of the past, something better comes along , that is positive attitude”. “In a 2000 Sq feet house, you Live only in 2000 Sq feet ; in the remaining 1800 Sq feet Lives Your      EGO ; So Leave no room for EGO in Our Hearts  “ “We may try to prove that we are right. But never attempt to prove that others are wrong. So let’s not  point Finger at others” “You will never change your Life until You change something you do Daily. Have a Great Day “ “The expert in anything was also once a Beginner ! So lets not hesitate to Begin something good” “Successful people change the World Fearlessly by their Decisions and Unsuccessful people change  their Decisions because of Fear of the World !” “Our wisdom comes from our experience, and our experience comes from our Foolishness!  So, lets  Learn from even our foolish experiences and move Ahead” "The Real Education is Your attitude and behavior with others. It defines Your whole personality,

        When you are polite and smile at the person who were rude at you, you will see that the person who was rude will smile back to you and will start behaving normally. Let me share my experience, I took an auto for going to market and it was very near from my home, when I got down I gave him the actual amount but he was charging me double and was speaking in high volume, auto driver was in short temper, but I just smile at him and spoke in low volume saying I gave the actual amount still why charging me high, auto driver than calmed down and said its ok. That is the magic of remaining calm and smiling when other person is rude at you. We can also see the magic of smile when people visit famous MNC, Restaurant or Fast Food Restaurant like MacDonalds, Dominos, Dunkin Donads, and many more. Do you know why people Love to visit those places? Reason is because they smile , there is self service and they give respect by saying “Sir, May I help You”. This small things matters a lot

        It’s so wonderful when you experience the blessings of God. We experience the Highest Authority’s touching when we meditate early morning. Have you ever wondered what would it be like when you come face to face with God, the ocean of Knowledge, Love, Peace and Bliss ? Here I would like to share with a humble heart about my experience of meeting God in our daily Lives through meditation. Just ask question to yourself whether you talk with God as a friend or you keep ordering things from God. This is the reason why people don’t understand the difference between prayer and meditation. In prayer you keep asking from God which you receive nothing because God does not like the word “PLEASE GIVE ME”. In meditation you share your feelings with the ALMIGHTY and you are open with HIM as a child; HE plays the role of our friend, parents, colleague, husband, etc. and response to our thoughts and feelings so we can discuss anything that we wished, we can give our Heart when we are in di